Write a really, really amazing list
detailing everything that you are looking for,
everything that would make you happy.
Only things that are exciting when you think of them go on the list,
no “I want this, but I deserve this” crap,
and no “anything will do’s” (because that is what you will get).
Get clear on what you want so you know where you’re headed
and you’ll know what it looks looks like when you see it.